She was very beautiful,and he was handsome,as i see them march at the aisle of Davao convention hall last jan 07,2009.It was Dennis and Rendas great big day (Wedding Day) She was wearing her white shantung material wedding gown made by her personal dressmaker...(shes the one who made rendas dress since she was 7 until now that shes married.:) A very simple gown, but elegant few rhinestone were there,that attracts the beholder.As a mother of the bride i  just want to recall few things about her childhood,... Today is her birthday January 19th, i can remember that everytime her birthday comes,sasabihin nya sa min na kailangan may handa, dahil pag walang handa hindi aabante ang birthday nya, so laging may handa na pagkain tuwing birthday niya, dahil yan ang paniniwala nya when she was still a kid..she was our first baby,our eldest and only daughter among the three. so lovely and cute,that everyone who sees her, crave to hold or to touch her,shes so healthy and very attractive with her long curly hair,. shes a gift to us,that made us laugh and happy with her tricks and dramas, always love to recall .....she love to go with me wherever i go,ako ang namimili ng mga damit at sapatos na sosoutin niya, and she often appreciate me for doing so,Ma ang ganda nito...ako ang nagsusuklay ng buhok nya,and she never disagree with me kahit anong hairstyle ang ginagawa ko sa kanya she goes with it... she sings sa mga conferences,fellowships and rallies kasi pinipilit ko- kahit takot sya, she often follow what i wanted to ask her...my mind  stops there,for me, she still a little child that i cradle everyday....Its hard to accept the fact that shes grown-up, My mind often says shes still a child and im gonna missed her when she got married,...Later...she has her own prinsipyo in life na,own ways to clothed herself,and do her hairstyle, and of course lovelife, i felt so hurt and jealous everytime i see, she has suitors,and this time we disagree a lot, she cant understand me, and i cant understand her, shes angry with me all the time ...i felt so sad everyday, that makes me think that im forsaken by my own child, were not friends anymore..she never goes with me wherever i go,she has her own life na..i often cry..madrama nga talaga ang buhay ng mga mothers,but children cant understand it...In otherhand, she was very thankful to us now, for many things that we did for her,that she doesnt understand before.
She went to canada 2007,a year after- she ask permission to get married on 2009,when i heard that, i felt so hurt, and sad, that i immediately shutdown the computer and wept.i didnt talk to her for few days cause i hate to hear that....later on, i realized that shes no longer getting any younger anymore,she is a fulfilled woman already, tapos na sa pag-aaral, at my job na, kaya puedeng puede nang mag-asawa...i conditioned myself and talk to her again,and it was nice this time,i say ok and with the blessing of the Lord.. simply...Mothers can really relate me what i wanted to convey,this is happen because of our great love to our children.they are the gift of God  given to us for our marriage,they are treasures more precious than gold,and we love them very much.The wedding was beautiful i didnt cry coz im finished,it was done before the marriage alone at home,and i understand that it was the beginning of her new life,ma mi missed ko lang sya, but im so happy for her."i always love the song you will always be a child in my eyes,even tho when youre growing old i hope you will realized that youre always be a child in my eyes...meaning parents were always there for them.sometimes children were so mean to  thier parents, .but i understand its a part of thier growth to adulthood..am so happy that i was able to comb her hair again,put her shoes on,dressed her up sa wedding gown nya,and escort her sa kanyang kasal...Masaya kami during her wedding day, her daddy was quite enough to show his feelings,ma mimiss nya rin sympre si tateng-pero dinaan nya na lang sa joke in the wedding rite mismo...,kunyari umiiyak siya he goes huhuhhuhuhu,nong kunin na ni dennis sa min si tateng..nagtawanan nalang kami instead of crying.....Masaya din kami dahil very careful sya sa sarili niya  na ang gusto naming mangyari sa kanya ay tinupad nya,not pregnant before wedding,and she makes us happy for that.I thank God for everything.Congrats Renda  and Dennis"mabuhay kayo"

glo ano ka ba, pinaiyak mo ako ng husto sa post na ito. Tulo ng tulo ang luha ko habang binabasa ito. yea, i could really relate to it, while looking back with fondness their days of childhood. Tama ka, humihinto ang memories natin doon, siguro dahil gusto lang nating isipin at alalahanin ng paulit-ulit yong mga times na maliliit pa sila, na very much part tayo sa araw-araw nilang buhay... haay, malungkot ang tumatanda, di ba? lalo na kapag nagigising ka araw-araw na walang ginagawa at independent na ang mga anak natin...
In a happier note, masaya din ako sa ginawa ng Dios para sa kanila, and thinking we share a great part in what they are now.. Higit sa lahat, masaya lang sila, masaya na rin tau..mababait naman napangasawa nila. I can`t thank God enough!

"hindi pregnant bago kinasal"? hahahaha, that makes me smile.:)

glo naging fear mo pala yan? ako naman tuwa din kasi hindi "nakabuntis" si dave bago kinasal!! KASALIGAN, hehehe!!

fear ko talaga yong mabuntis siya na di pa kinasal...kasi for me binabasi ko dyan ang tatag niya of having a boyfriend.kaya stricto kami sa kanya non dahil dyan kaya xa naiinis sa amin....ngayon pa???sabi ng mga teen-agers hindi na daw uso ang mag march na hindi buntis,i hate to hear that...kaya sinisiguro ko sa kanila na hindi siya buntis at di makabuntis before wedding hehehehe...kasaligan ba????

fact talaga yan jane alam mo si ama non yan lagi ang sinasabi di ba????at saka kahit papano big deal pa rin sa kin yan til now-kailangan not pregnant before wedding.

yes... amen!!